SHARE
A friend was
discussing time sharing. That lead me to think –what is time sharing --come to
think of it – You share things with your near and dear ones. So when one wants
to limit his thoughts to TIME sharing, it is not time per se but happiness or
otherwise. The other thing is of course managing days work/activities as per
desired priorities so that important work gets completed earliest or before
desired time it is required to be completed.
Let us focus here on
Sharing Happiness as ultimately that is what counts. Today everyone says– one
is busy or very busy and has difficulty in finding Time for his near and dear
ones. We claim to do everything for our close ones but then we do not give the
most precious thing – that is your presence (TIME you may say). When you say
your presence it is actually –communicating with person so that you share his
happiness, anxieties or vice versa. Life with all the material assets wouldn’t
be worth it, if you are left alone to see it, enjoy it or suffer it. Man is a
social animal and hence he looks for people to be with. WITH is meaningful only
if one is ready to be in a state where one understands other fully. In old
movie, ANAND starring Rajesh khanna and Amitabh Bacchan, there is a dialogue to
emphasise the simple HUMAN behaviour, which we generally try to explain by
complex phrases/terminologies. The crux of dialogue is, when two persons meet,
a wavelength is generated by one person which may be accepted or rejected by
other person. If the response is positive, there will be good communication and
long friendship, on the contrary if the response is NOT returned the
communication DOESN’T start or there is No flow of energy between two persons.
Its essential that we share thoughts and act together. .So if you see somebody,
where you feel connection, let them know it. Relationship and SHARING is simple
but then Human beings are good at making simple things Complicated. I shall
narrate an incident ..
A senior executive
(Bengali Gentleman) in Indian Corporate was proudly narrating about his
daughter who had done Engineering and was placed in IT company at Banglore after
campus placement. The girl was new in work/ job and as she was NOT likely to
get leave for Kali Puja, requested her parents to join her at Banglore for Kali
Puja. The parents promptly said that
they must be at their Home in Kolkatta for
Puja. I told him his daughter was like Kali and if she is NOT very
happy/ pleased, then Maa Kali wouldn’t be happy too. He smiled and said he
shall tell this conversation to his daughter. Hopefully he would not stay
at kolkatta for Puja and visit his
daughter. To emphasise my point of importance of relationships and sharing I
told him about a Marathi song—Shodhisi manava...Rahato to Antri... The crux of
the song is that Dont go around searching god in Four directions ( Four Dhams),
..the God resides in yourself (your
HEART).. the morale is – Take care of your Near ones and Not look for GOD for
he resides in everyone.. you have to only
Nuture goodness and GOD shall bless you. Think and implement it in your
life.
SHARING has various connotations
– you have to select based on your values and beliefs. May you find RIGHT directions
in life.
