SHARING

SHARE

A friend was discussing time sharing. That lead me to think –what is time sharing --come to think of it – You share things with your near and dear ones. So when one wants to limit his thoughts to TIME sharing, it is not time per se but happiness or otherwise. The other thing is of course managing days work/activities as per desired priorities so that important work gets completed earliest or before desired time it is required to be completed.

Let us focus here on Sharing Happiness as ultimately that is what counts. Today everyone says– one is busy or very busy and has difficulty in finding Time for his near and dear ones. We claim to do everything for our close ones but then we do not give the most precious thing – that is your presence (TIME you may say). When you say your presence it is actually –communicating with person so that you share his happiness, anxieties or vice versa. Life with all the material assets wouldn’t be worth it, if you are left alone to see it, enjoy it or suffer it. Man is a social animal and hence he looks for people to be with. WITH is meaningful only if one is ready to be in a state where one understands other fully. In old movie, ANAND starring Rajesh khanna and Amitabh Bacchan, there is a dialogue to emphasise the simple HUMAN behaviour, which we generally try to explain by complex phrases/terminologies. The crux of dialogue is, when two persons meet, a wavelength is generated by one person which may be accepted or rejected by other person. If the response is positive, there will be good communication and long friendship, on the contrary if the response is NOT returned the communication DOESN’T start or there is No flow of energy between two persons. Its essential that we share thoughts and act together. .So if you see somebody, where you feel connection, let them know it. Relationship and SHARING is simple but then Human beings are good at making simple things Complicated. I shall narrate an incident ..

A senior executive (Bengali Gentleman) in Indian Corporate was proudly narrating about his daughter who had done Engineering and was placed in IT company at Banglore after campus placement. The girl was new in work/ job and as she was NOT likely to get leave for Kali Puja, requested her parents to join her at Banglore for Kali Puja.  The parents promptly said that they must be at their Home in Kolkatta for  Puja. I told him his daughter was like Kali and if she is NOT very happy/ pleased, then Maa Kali wouldn’t be happy too. He smiled and said he shall tell this conversation to his daughter. Hopefully he would not stay at  kolkatta for Puja and visit his daughter. To emphasise my point of importance of relationships and sharing I told him about a Marathi song—Shodhisi manava...Rahato to Antri... The crux of the song is that Dont go around searching god in Four directions ( Four Dhams), ..the God  resides in yourself (your HEART).. the morale is – Take care of your Near ones and Not look for GOD for he resides in everyone.. you have to only  Nuture goodness and GOD shall bless you. Think and implement it in your life.

SHARING has various connotations – you have to select based on your values and beliefs. May you find RIGHT directions in life.

 Surya